The best way to achieve happiness is to not care about other's opinion about you.

Not trying to be an ostrich, to just bury my head into sands and avoid/ignore everything.

Not too sure bout other people, but realized that actually other people's comment isn't necessarily important. What matters most is, what YOU think.

It's mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesnt matter.


Read this article bout "attitude". The importance of it.


ATTITUDE is more important than facts.

It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people say or think or do.

It is more important than appearance, than giftedness or skills.

We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.

We cannot change the inevitable.

The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.

Life is 10% of what happened to us and 90% of how we react to it.

We have a choice - everyday - regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.


Guess this is finally something more "positive" you have seen/heard from me till date. :/ I'm trying my very best to attain this. And definitely, hoping i can do it. :)

Just started work, gonna start to get real busy. But still, I'm gonna bear this in mind; Attitude.

Singtel Sundown Festival 2011

Just 2 days ago, worked again with Alison:) for a concert held at Singapore Flyers.

work's pretty slack as usual. :) Its more like catching up session than working. plus, we get to watch the concert and hang out with the celeb at the backstage! :))

same attire as the M tech event. LOL.

I was fascinated by the weather; half cloudy half gloomy.

And the rest of them were like, "whats so fascinating about this? You never see before meh?"

hehehe, yeah, thats me. getting fascinated by minor stuff. :x

bad bad weather, raining almost everyday. monsoon season huh? :/

Vivid, teen top, zhang yun jing, hebe and show!

Frankly speaking, I only know whose hebe and luo zhi xiang. LOL. the rest, I think if I was to bump onto them on the streets, I wouldnt even know who they are. :x HEH!

night view. :)

theres like a mini food fare also!

serving all Korean, Jap and Taiwan delights! *nom nom nom*fat die me*

I'll certainly miss working with Alison! ;))

One day, I'll get used to it.

Ok, officially leaving the events industry for good! (I hope)

If nothing goes wrong, I should be starting work real soon!

tgt with my 10 years bestie! :)

Need another change in life; a better turn. Had been anticipating for it to happen. :) Just hoping there wont be any disputes at work that will affect the friendship! :)

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Wisdom is learning to let go when you want to hang on.

Courage is learning to hang on when you want to let go.

If that's so, I guesss the ratio of my widsom : courage, would be 2 : 8.

Didnt know I am that courageous, till now.

Shokubutsu Contest 2011

19.11.11

Have you missed the Shokubutsu Finals at Bugis? :P

heheh, it was my FIRST time standing in the crowd, supporting and cheering for someone in a contest. It really feels different from participating in one.

In the past, I rmb, staying at the backstage, waiting for the contest to start was really nervous, and time passed really fast.

And now having the experience of being an audience make me realized, they have to stand outside for 4-5 hours just to catch a glimpse, really tough eh? hahaha. :X and fearing you might lose your "space" in the crowd once you go for toilet breaks etc? Really sucks. :/

Nevertheless, I do enjoy myself, met alot of friends and photographers too! heh! ;) All teasing me asking why didn I join? :XX

and of course, Im down for my dearest; Manli:)

Finally get a chance to see her in person; Hayley. hahah :)

bumped into, joseph.

and Kenny accompanied me! :)

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ANOTHER THING!! CONTEST WLL NEVER START ON TIME. lol!

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luckily, Man li is contestant no. 3! Q&A time!

"Fashion show"

so sweeet! this is so man li! hahaha, you can always associate her with blue. :p

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while the judges were tabulating the results for semi finals,

I saw Jiaxi! and Shauna!

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Of course, she got into top 10! ;))

and they were required to perform a talent :) she can play really well btw ;) and I "teased" her for not playing 1 for me on my 21st! :XX

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having said that,

TADA! 1st runner up! SHO DARN HAPPY FOR HER!! :D almost teared when the emcee announced okayyy!! :')

Once again, congrats on the title. I know you can do it! ;)

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Dinner with Cherleen, Alison and Fiona afterthat.

Our first outing! hahaha, feels kinda not used to it, cos normally we will only have dinner before/after work! :X

I only like the tart without the fruit. :/

decided to head to a pub at Ann Siang hill to chill.

*ok, complain starts*if you wanna know which pub it is, I'll always be MORE THAN WILLING to share it with you, just email me;)*

TMD, I TELL YOU, their service is FUCKING BAD. sorry I have to swear, but seriously. IF I HAVE A CHOICE TO, I AM NOT GONNA FUCKING STEP INSIDE AGAIN.

AND IM NOT TRYING TO BE RACIST HERE, well, not gonna "Describe" the race, I believe you can judge and critic on your own. believe they arent popular around too! =.=

SERIOUSLYYYYYYYYYYYY, DISGRACE TO HAVE YOU AROUND. NO WONDER YOU PEOPLE CANNOT MAKE IT BIG NOT MATTER WHERE YOU ARE, WHERE YOU GO. ATTITUDE IS DAMN BAD.

SHE NEEDS TO TAKE LIKE 5 MINS TO OPEN A CHAMPAGNE BOTTLE?!?!!? ARE YOU KIDDING ME??!??!?!?!?! IS LIKE, I EVEN HAD A CHANCE TO SNAP A PICTURE OF YOU?!?!?! WHAT KINDA WAITRESS ARE YOU?! WORKING IN A PUB AND NOT KNOWING HOW TO OPEN A CHAMPAGNE?! DO YOU EVEN KNOW HOW TO POUR BEER NOW?!? SERIOUSLY. _|_

AND SERIOUSLY LAH HUH, IM NOT KICKING A BIG FUSS COS SHE DK HOW TO OPEN ONE, IM JUST NOT SATISFIED WITH THEIR ATTITUDE.

A.T.T.I.U.D.E.

DONT YOU KNOW ITS IMPORTANT ESPECIALLY IN THE SERVICE LINE?!?!? GODDDDD.

and I dont understand why my friend can TOLERATE this. I swear if I was with other people, I'd have just stomped out of the pub STRAIGHT AWAY. ZZzZZzzZZZZzzzzzzzzzzZZz

I DONT FUCKING NEED YOU TO TEACH ME HOW TO DRINK ALCOHOL, HOW TO DO MY MIXER. CAN YOU PPL EVEN DRINK IN THE FIRST PLACE?!

JUST LIKE I DONT FUCKING NEED TO TEACH YOU HOW TO WEAR YOUR BRA AND PANTIES RIGHT?!?!?!?! _|_

ok, Im done:) sorry uh! I aint that bitchy sort to begin with. They are just horrible. thats all. :)

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All the Negativities, SCREW YOU.

4 days since I last updated! As you can tell, I haven been my usual self lately. :/ And I was never like that. Thinking back, nothing could really steal the most precious thing I ever own; my smile, away from me.

But, what happened?

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Hell yeah, I'd want the old bubbly kit back.

I want the "I dont give a damn attitude" back.

I want the cheerful me back.

I want the optimistic me back.

Everyone who has really known me well enough, love me, have been waiting for this day to come ever since. Really sorry to have kept my loved ones worrying.

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How contradicting huh? I used to be the one cheering people up, lifting the atmosphere up; but now, I can no longer do the same.

Nothing goes my way. Thats how pathetic it is.

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I'd rather lock myself up in the house, just spending time with my parents, than stepping out of the house. I dont even wanna cont all the damn event jobs that interest me all this while.

NO. Not at all. I'd rather stay in my mom's cafe, helping her out, than to PRETEND that Im happy working with others. I just wanna isolate myself. Thats how bad it is.

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I.Dont.Know.Whats.Wrong.With.Me.And.I.Think.I.Am.Sinking.Into.Depression.Soon.

*FUCK IT!*

Actually, I do know. But, I choose to avoid. That's all. :/

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p/s. some people take things way too seriously, stop being so uptight and just maybe you'll enjoy life a bit more. - Will constantly repeat in my head. and dont spend forever trying to figure things out, cause many things arent meant to have answers.

More than you know.

Never thought I'd love someone so much.

Never thought I'll be willing to do so much for that particular someone.

Never thought you'd mean so much to me.

Never thought it could be as painful as needles piercing through my heart.

Never thought it could be as sweet as cotton candy.

Never thought YOU could easily turn my world upside down.

Never thought; love, is such a powerful and strong word, that can completely change you into another person.

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

Ok, shall do this post differently! ;) lemme try it in Chinese. Hehehe. Simple Chinese, I believe Singaporeans will be able to understand? :/ And this is what I've gathered from my gfs :x maybe you can tell me if it's true or false. :)

"每个女人的心里，都住着一个十几岁的小女孩,

不论这个女孩有多成熟的性格，不论她的年纪多大,

这个住在女人心里的小女孩，和一般小女生一样,

有着浪漫天真的情怀，总是爱做着自己心里的美梦，并衷心地希望梦想成真."

Anyway, to sum it up, I think;

P/s. A girl becomes a woman when she learns to love herself more than she loves a man. - this is definitely not deemed as, what you called: selfish OR self centered.

How will you possibly know how to love, if you don't even love yourself? Right? ;)

Happy people, Happy thoughts.

Something some of you might never understand.

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Not easy through words but prolly actions.

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I'm learning to accept - If somebody doesnt love you the way you might want to be loved. It doesnt mean they dont love with you all their heart.

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A day before I left for Taiwan. And a day before Ryan enlist.

Finally get a chance to meet them. Everyone's busy with their own activities nowadays. Really have to make an effort to catch up one another.

Anyway, they are NOT a couple; just BFFs.

but, they really look cute tgt. Always like to tease Ryan; he'll never know they might end up tgt in the future.

and this is how he will always react. HAHAHA. :X

Well, misses the good old days :) hoping we'll be able to meet up soon with the hectic schedules nowadays.

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Anyways! Side note. Will be at Bugis Junction this coming Sat to support my dearest.

for her contest. :) catch ya there! from 4pm to 7pm! ;)

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p/s. sometimes the heart can be your bestfriend and worst enemy. It can make you the happiest person yet also can give you a sadness like you've never known.

KL Trip - Mtech Event

9th - 10th Nov

Supposedly to stay in KL for 3D2N. but thinking I'd tire myself out, I chose to come back a day earlier! ;) *shag max*.

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Took a coach, really wonder why they didn get us a flight instead. :X 5 hours journey is indeed a bitch. :X

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thank god I've got company. hehehe.

and when I get bored, I'll just go around disturbing everybardy. hehehe. :X took a snap of the driver. :X

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and Cherleen baked cookies for all of us! so sweetaye. home made cookies yo!

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and after the 5 hours ride, we finally reached. *backacheeeee*

Stayed in One World Hotel.

3 of us shared a room; Cherleen, Fiona and I. :)

thinking that we'd be busy throughout, I actually didn bring my bikini along. AND DAMN. I was WRONGGGG. I so darn bored while they were doing the setup. :/

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so, I just stayed around in the hotel and guess what?!

my toe nail broke! KNN! hurhurhur.

I just did my pedicure A DAY BEFORE can. *pouts*

But well, It wasnt painful at all. :/ I wonder why, too! :X

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went over to the guy's room to borrow nail clipper! and to my horror,

IT WASNT EVEN HALF A DAY YET. gawddddddd. G.U.Y.S. lol!

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Next day! Event date! ;)

layout was quite similar to the one held in Singapore, Grand Hyatt. sorry, no pictures taken that day! Didn bring camera along! hehehe. :X

and theres a change of outfit too!

wonder when did I become the "organizer"! hahaha.

emcee; Jonny. :)

Fiona.Cherleen.Kit!

Fiona looks sleepy, doesnt she?

LOL, she stayed up all the way! w.i.n.z. I couldnt even make it just for 5 hours sleep! :s

*ok, warning. a series of camwhore*

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And! after the event, me and cherleen headed back to the hotel first! hehe. work was easy as always. :) Love working for spireworks. :)

and when girls got nth to do, camwhore begins! LOLOL.

and the emcee came and "join" us after that. hahahaha. :X

went back sg after the event, another 5 hours journey. Fiona and Cherleen continued their stay. way tooooo tiredddddd. :X *imma old lady already*

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p/s. bear in mind; even the sweetest chocolate, has an expiry date.